If conversations are frustrating you because they keep going in circles, this video will explain why.
In this video, I break down 6 things avoidant people say to avoid accountability — and how these phrases can quietly flip the conversation, shut down repair, and leave you feeling confused, self-doubting, or like you’re “too much.” What makes this tricky is that these phrases often sound reasonable at first. They don’t always feel like avoidance. But nothing ever actually gets acknowledged… repaired… or changed.
In this video, you’ll learn:
• The 6 most common phrases avoidant people use when accountability feels threatening
• Why these phrases can make you start explaining, apologizing, or abandoning yourself
• How avoidance can sound calm or logical — but still block real connection
• The key difference between healthy pauses and emotional shutdown
• How to stay clear, grounded, and self-trusting when these patterns show up
And near the end, I’ll talk about how to regain your clarity, confidence, and sense of self if you keep finding yourself in relationships where accountability never seems to land. If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation thinking: “Why do I feel worse now?” “Why didn’t anything actually get resolved?” “Why do I always end up doubting myself?”
This video will help things click.