Because it takes more effort to step back and take responsibility for our part – no more, no less – it’s a lot easier to either blame ourselves for things that weren’t entirely our faults, or blame others for things that weren’t theirs. But blame either way doesn’t feel good, and it usually leads to someone feeling terrible, and not a lot of resolution being made. Here’s how to stop getting stuck in blame either way, so you can start working towards solutions to problems.